If your not learning your not growing and if your not growing your dying.......

The eyes are truly the windows to the soul, they tell more about you then you will care to let on. A wise and graceful woman knows that controlling a situation will never do her any justice. The universe or God is the true controller we are merely just divine instruments to a higher calling for the greater good. Regardless, of how powerful someone's mind may be, they must understand their role in the universe is not to manipulate or control. They must constantly call to mind that God's will be done not their own, or they are heeded to run into unwanted circumstances in the long run.  We are here to build each other  up not tear each other down. It perplexes me to see people who live their lives so unconscious to the mere fact that each action or choice that we make effects each person around us and it has a ripple effect in our lives. For many years I lived my life unconscious to this simple fact of how my actions impacted others. How wrong and naive was I to believe such a fallacy. Being young and vibrant I unconsciously wrecked many lives and many hearts. In retrospect, I understand this sad state of affairs and I no longer want to live my life so carelessly. I want to build up the people in my life not tear them down.  I am growing and I am learning how to live a better life. I am striving to hold myself to higher standards. What this means to me is understanding how my actions impact others in my life. I want to be conscious how simple words or reaching out to someone can impact those around me. Our lives are so chaotic that we lack the understanding of the simplicity of emotion. Fundamentally, one word can alter someone's thinking, one word can detour a conversation, one word can end or begin a relationship. My mind is constantly analyzing and I want the best for myself and those around me. So in order for me to do that I need to surround myself with the winners and the situations that will serve me.   The beauty in life is that with each day we learn valuable life lessons. However lessons require us to gather material and deduct information from this material. This material is gathered over time within the days of our lives and time heals heals everything. So people move forward and grow with each new day. Because if your not learning your not growing and if your not growing your dying.



Be good to yourself and others.