Energy Flows Where Attention Goes

It is a proven scientific fact that energy flows where attention goes. With that being said where is your thought space. Does your mind wander in the positive arena or the negative arena? "The Secret," unveiled ancient knowledge that previously was only provided to the elite. Knowledge unlocks the chains of ignorance, and expands the mind to limitless levels of consciousness. The majority of society exists in the lower levels of consciousness. The general consensus of consciousness is what we typically equate to be the standard definition of normal. However, normal is a stasis term which has the possibility to evolve with human knowledge and conscious expansion. At the very core of our existence each human being is united by a common truth, a common understanding of our soul's consciousness. Have you ever noticed the similarities between another human being's experiences and your own? Well this is the very truth in which I am talking about. This truth is the truth that unites all of our journeys. The struggles and the adversities that we consider to darken our paths are the very things that unite our consciousness. These perils that we face are our greatest blessings but for some reason we still consider them to be our biggest curses. It is all a matter of perception; a way of looking at our particular situation. If we fail to see the dimensions of our existence, we will fail to see the dimensions of our existence. If we can not face our struggles, we will never see our joys. We must have the strength to face the tough times, in order to truly have the perspective to appreciate the luxuries of the sweeter times. Face yourself, stop looking outside of yourself for a solution that can only be found within yourself. Until next time be good to yourself so that you may be good to others.

Celebrities Can't Live Without Them

He tells me he watched the UFC fight. I let him know my friend Arianny is the ring girl. He shows me her face that is tattooed across his body. It is strangest thing to me to see her face staring at me from his body. She stares at me like the twilight zone. It so amazing to watch someone grow up and then become famous. Arianny is such a sweet girl and she has become internationally known for her work in the U.F.C. I am so proud of her, she has was worked hard to get where she is. I have noticed she has even evolved her brand name into a jewelry line. This topic has led me to me think all of the famous people I have met over the years growing up in Vegas. If I named all the people from working at the Wynn this blog would drag on. However, the list is pretty phenomenal. One day I was suppose to meet Yoko Ono but unfortunately her flight was cancelled. That would have been one of my highlights. I think the most phenomenal person I was ever in the room with was the Dali Lama. I never had the chance to meet him but I saw him from the distance and that was good enough for me. It so interesting the type of presence that famous people bring into the room. I mean they are only  human beings but the dynamic they bring is like a whirl wind of cosmos. Speaking of famous people I grew up with Julianne and Derek Hough were my neighbors in my childhood years. I only met them once at a neighborhood block party on the fourth of July. Their parents always had them out of the country dancing. Looking back I wish that they had been home more often. That way I would have been able to play with them. However everything happens for a reason and I firmly believe in that. Nothing in God's universe is a coincidence. The people we meet, we are meant to meant, the events that happen are meant to happen. So make good choices and good things will come your way. Chase your dreams and live a life beyond your wildest dreams.

Leaving A Legacy of Love Even After Death

            Written by Sarah Grace Windham My Best Friend....................................................

      I've never been afraid of death. Even as a child, I've been able to view the cycle of life in a most objective manner. From the moment of birth, we are dying. Death is simply the price of life. I have felt a certain pity for those who cannot stare death in the face and embrace it.

     Tonight I took my daugther on a late evening stroll. She loves the moon. She loves for me to tell her stories about the moon. She loves to tell me stories about the moon. And as I walked hand in hand with her, her little hand squeezed mine and she looked up into my eyes and she smiled her sweetest smile. 

    I felt my heart tighten just a little and in that very moment I was afraid. I was afraid of death. Afraid I wouldn't get to see her grow into the beautiful woman I know she will become. Afraid I will miss even one of her 'firsts.' Afraid of her finding her way in life alone. Afraid. It is amazing how love transforms us. It changes how we think...how we feel....what we become....it changes the course of our life.

       I realized tonight that I must live every moment 'in the moment' and stop worrying about the crap that truly doesn't matter. Life is a collection of moments...a breathe within eternity. I have to teach my daughter the life lessons that are truly important and show her - not just tell her - what love truly is. And if I am successful, the love I have for her will live on in her long after my time on earth has passed.

We're Not Going To Take It

(CELEBRITY LOOK A-LIKES FOR MY FRIENDS YOU WOULD BE SHOCKED AT HOW CLOSE EACH ONE OF THEM RESEMBLES THESES ACTRESSES)

Laughter infuses our conversation. She says John get back in the car and the she tells him you can take that check and shove it up your ass unless your going to double it's worth!! I am shocked but amazed at this new found strength. My best friend is blossoming each day into this new woman with so much strength and attitude. From fierce pumps to setting healthy boundaries, she is expanding her horizons. This blog is meant to define the ways in which we used to tolerate our incompleteness. The ways in which we use to settle for the less version of ourselves versus the best version of ourselves. I don't know about you but I refuse to not evolve towards the best version of myself. I want to function at my full capacity, to grow and learn a valuable lesson with each new day. I want people to respect me, to listen to what I have to say. I don't want people to disregard the words that are coming out of my mouth. I mean what I say when I say it.  You better believe I have a voice and it will be heard. As I write this blog a dear friend comes to mind by the name of Loyce Bowman aka Tone Loc. She was as fierce as fierce could be. In fact, if Webster's dictionary could have a contest entry for an individual photo for fierceness her photo would certainly BE it. This bitch was off the hook. Each friend comes into our lives to teach us valuable lessons. Mrs. Bowman taught me how to be fierce. I will always remember a specific conversation Mrs. Bowman and I had in a hotel room in San Diego. We promised each other we would never let any man walk all over us. Well I can confidently say that I have upheld that promise and there is no doubt in my mind that she has too. I hope that our paths will cross in the near future and I am sure they will soon. She will probably fly out first class with her nails done, hair done, a fierce outfit, and some fierce pumps because she just has it like that. My only hope for her is that at this point in her journey she is the strong independent woman that she has always deserved to be. Until next time stay true to yourself and be kind to others.

Becca inspires FOREVER YOUNG

                                       

Becca so full of life, so full of knowledge, like a young surfer girl ready to ride the wave of life. Last night I hung out with a young girl named Becca. At the age of twenty she was so full of life, that it made me go inside my head and remember my early twenties. What a beautiful and spontaneous time, music was everything and the attention of boys came second in line. Friends of course was the next of motivator of my time . Attention seeking motivation was everything that I did. I was also seeking spirituality. My friends called me a modern age hippy and everything was a groovy good time. I feel like an old fart writing this blog. In any case I know Becca and her friends were fun last night. I felt alive last night, like really alive. She was much was much more confident that I was at her age. She was fierce!! She interacted with others and people were drawn to her. She was happy to be around her friends and take everything in. Oh to be young again, what a beautiful thing. A girl can always daydream always daydream about her early twenties, but all in all I thoroughly enjoy being in my late twenties because of all of the knowledge I have acquired from the mistakes. It was nice hanging out with Becca I look forward to more fun times of feeling alive.

Runaway Bride

I never imagined I would be saying this but I don't want to be a bride at this point in my journey. I am thoroughly enjoying my single-hood with my girlfriends. Exploring my liberty with all my girls is liberating and refreshing. From shopping to late night conversations about the douche bags that come in and out of our lives. We haven't met anyone that sticks yet and I like it that ways because I don't want anyone to rob the most valuable asset that we have with each other which is TIME. I love my girls and the love me. I always imagined getting married as a young woman. Thoughts flooded my mind like; who would be my bridesmaids, what my dress would look like, HOW BIG MY RING WOULD BE, what newspapers would announce the engagement, how my husband would look like, what his profession would be? I always imagined his profession to be an attorney but now I have evolved into believing him to be a prestigious international business owner. However, in recent days I have this overwhelming fascination with famous musicians, but I did listen to the lyrics about falling in love with a music man and I contemplate as to whether or not that is such a good idea. I can't imagine women throwing themselves at my husband on a day to day basis. I have been known to be a jealous woman and I do have a Bonquita side when women do not show respect for other married woman. I just don't understand what the hell woman are thinking when they go after married men. Why don't they understand that woman should be united? Aren't there enough douche bags all ready in the world? Women do not need to contribute to the douche bag syndrome. Trust me when I say it's already bad enough for crying out loud! Ok thats enough ranting about the douche bag syndrome. In any case I never imagined that I the hopeless romantic would not want to get married, but yes I have reached a point in my journey where I can confidently say that I do not want to get married at this point. I always imagined that I would be the sister that would get married first. I was talking to my sister last night and she is ranting on and on about a possible destination wedding in Fiji in the future and blah blah blah. It's crazy how life turns out I always imagined that I would be the first sister to get married and that still might be the case you never know only time will tell but I can tell you one thing that if I get married it will be the event of the season because I will go big or else do nothing at all. Until next time I hope love finds a way in all of your lives. LOVE is amazing it has a way to move mountains. All the great wars in history were because of love. I mean look at Helen of Troy that bitch caused the Trojan War. Good for her she will never be forgotten. She must have been a truly gorgeous woman for all those people to be fighting over her. I wish I could have been her in a past life or maybe she must have felt really bad for causing so many deaths who knows in any case I like being me today and I wouldn't trade my life for the world or all the riches in the world. Have a good day everyone and God Bless.

Human Dynamics.. Probably the most interesting Course of Study

Human dynamics are probably the most interesting course of study. I am so intrigued at way in which humans interact with one another. It is interesting to just sit back and watch. You see the way internal pain is inflicted from one individual to another or on the contrary how internal happiness is shared from one person to another. I have had the pleasure of living in close proximity with a variety of individuals with different personalities in my lifetime and it has truly been an interesting journey. I have had moments of intense anger, moments of intense sadness, moments of intense confusion, and moments of complete perplexity. All in all I have learned that self restraint is key in moments of confusion. It is better to say nothing at all than regret saying something in a moment of haste. It is a waste of energy and valuable time to waste words upon someone who does not value them in the moment or who will misconstrue them for what they are worth. People are put in our lives to teach us profound lessons. Nothing in God's universe is an accident, acknowledge each person that comes in your path and treat them with respect and dignity because they deserve that. Treat them as you would want to be treated. Hurting them is only hurting yourself in the long run and if you are to blind to see that then you are only fooling yourself into oblivion. It hard to acknowledge this simple fact and I too question the lessons that these individuals are teaching me but whom am I to question God's plan for me. I am typically an individual who firmly believes in self expression to the fullest extentiality but there is always a time and a place and one must be conscious of these realms in order to really live a full and purposeful life. I am only human and I must admit that I am not always fully conscious of these realms and the implications of not being fully conscious and overstepping these guidelines or parameters. In any case with each over stepping I learn a valuable lesson and become more and more conscious to not over step these narrow parameters. With each mistake I listen more and my mind becomes more and more quiet. Another valuable lesson that I learned today is a lesson in conversating with others. I generally take the lead in conversations I have a very effervescent personality and I love to shine like the star that I was born to be. I tend to intimidate others with my domineering personality and I refuse to shrink my larger than life personality because others are intimidate. However, with this in mind I must still be conscious to not be to overbearing to listen more than I talk because to listen is truly more rewarding than talking all the time. I have consciously been making an effort to listen more and it has truly been transformational in my life. Until next time you hear from little ole 500 days of SUMMMERRRRRRRRRRRRRR..... 

Stay sweet and be kind to yourself and others.. Ciao.. XOXO