Human dynamics are probably the most interesting course of study. I am so intrigued at way in which humans interact with one another. It is interesting to just sit back and watch. You see the way internal pain is inflicted from one individual to another or on the contrary how internal happiness is shared from one person to another. I have had the pleasure of living in close proximity with a variety of individuals with different personalities in my lifetime and it has truly been an interesting journey. I have had moments of intense anger, moments of intense sadness, moments of intense confusion, and moments of complete perplexity. All in all I have learned that self restraint is key in moments of confusion. It is better to say nothing at all than regret saying something in a moment of haste. It is a waste of energy and valuable time to waste words upon someone who does not value them in the moment or who will misconstrue them for what they are worth. People are put in our lives to teach us profound lessons. Nothing in God's universe is an accident, acknowledge each person that comes in your path and treat them with respect and dignity because they deserve that. Treat them as you would want to be treated. Hurting them is only hurting yourself in the long run and if you are to blind to see that then you are only fooling yourself into oblivion. It hard to acknowledge this simple fact and I too question the lessons that these individuals are teaching me but whom am I to question God's plan for me. I am typically an individual who firmly believes in self expression to the fullest extentiality but there is always a time and a place and one must be conscious of these realms in order to really live a full and purposeful life. I am only human and I must admit that I am not always fully conscious of these realms and the implications of not being fully conscious and overstepping these guidelines or parameters. In any case with each over stepping I learn a valuable lesson and become more and more conscious to not over step these narrow parameters. With each mistake I listen more and my mind becomes more and more quiet. Another valuable lesson that I learned today is a lesson in conversating with others. I generally take the lead in conversations I have a very effervescent personality and I love to shine like the star that I was born to be. I tend to intimidate others with my domineering personality and I refuse to shrink my larger than life personality because others are intimidate. However, with this in mind I must still be conscious to not be to overbearing to listen more than I talk because to listen is truly more rewarding than talking all the time. I have consciously been making an effort to listen more and it has truly been transformational in my life. Until next time you hear from little ole 500 days of SUMMMERRRRRRRRRRRRRR.....
Stay sweet and be kind to yourself and others.. Ciao.. XOXO
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